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Meeting New People- Do You Have A Preference?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 652530" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>To Insane Canadian and anyone else interested: I feel a shared moral code is imperative. </p><p></p><p>I can not tell you how uncomfortable I felt listening to my sister blabbing to me about her relations with a married man. That is soooooooooooooo against my moral code...it is a dealbreaker with a friend, but this was Sis before I realized Sis was a toxic force in my life. She also told me about how she let the next boyfriend abuse her (while if I said one bad word to her she'd cut me off for years). I had trouble hearing her allowing him to abuse her and there were other things...she's a drinker who thinks getting drunk a lot and using cocaine is ok sometimes, etc. It IS ok...for other people.</p><p></p><p>If you don't have similar moral compasses and behaviors you have nothing in common. A good start is common morals and interests and common feelings about how to spend free time (in bars or at home, for example). It's not that easy to make friends. Especially trustworthy ones. JMO <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 652530, member: 1550"] To Insane Canadian and anyone else interested: I feel a shared moral code is imperative. I can not tell you how uncomfortable I felt listening to my sister blabbing to me about her relations with a married man. That is soooooooooooooo against my moral code...it is a dealbreaker with a friend, but this was Sis before I realized Sis was a toxic force in my life. She also told me about how she let the next boyfriend abuse her (while if I said one bad word to her she'd cut me off for years). I had trouble hearing her allowing him to abuse her and there were other things...she's a drinker who thinks getting drunk a lot and using cocaine is ok sometimes, etc. It IS ok...for other people. If you don't have similar moral compasses and behaviors you have nothing in common. A good start is common morals and interests and common feelings about how to spend free time (in bars or at home, for example). It's not that easy to make friends. Especially trustworthy ones. JMO ;) [/QUOTE]
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