So this morning is our manifest determination hearing, or whatever we do to begin the process. The school already told me that they consider difficult child's behavior a manifestation of his disability--so I am not really concerned-I just hate meetings at school. I am really glad that I took the IEP based on an ED and OHI classification. I think that really helped. difficult child has still been pretty wild, even with the addition of the abilify. It is only a 2mg dose, so that could be why. That was at my insistence, I told psychiatrist I wanted to start low and go slow. I am pretty grateful he listens. I hope this is not a verbal bash on difficult child. Most of the time the school is good about that, but I just don't know if I can put up with that right now. Just too much going on.