Hello, I have a 25/son, diagnosed with adhd and odd since age 5. As an infant would go into rages and knock holes in the walls around crib with-head, bite himself till black and blue, knock his head on concrete patios leaving goose eggs on forehead, chewed holes in all of his shirts, pillowcases etc from nerves. childhood asthma, hearing problems which caused speech problems, growth hormone deficiency, adhd, odd, and anger problems. Above average intelligence but socially way behind. During kindergarden was removed from school due to stress and sent to mental health. Was removed from school and and sent to military schoolfor disciplinary problems. The military school asked up to remove him from there so he was home schooled for a time then returned to paraochial school. He joined the army after attending college for two semesters. Excelled in army and was successfully living n his own and attending college until his father died this past October. I was molested at age 13-15, sent to foster home till graduation. I have epilepsy and have been on various anticonvulsants since age 11. I developed social anxiety and have had problems with that since around age 13. My husband had bouts of depression and was very hard on my son as as a child and became verbally abusive to both of us. My son is now 25 and returned from the army in July after 5 years of service. Was Iraq for 1 yr. He is out of control. He is prescribed with Strattera and xyrem (for narcolepsy) but refuses to take them. Every little thing I say sets him off cursing me out, screaming in a rage. We have been attending therapy together since his father died but lately it just seems to be escalating. One moment he's fine and the next a powder keg fixing to explode. I made him leave several days ago but he returned after sitting in the cemetery until caretaker made him leave. I woke up at 3am with him standing by my bed crying saying he wanted to kill himself. I sat him down and talked to him all night and he was happy as a clam when he finally went to bed. I told him it had to stop but it happened again 2 days later for no reason other than me speaking to him. I made him leave again but he came back..again..grabbing guns,ammo, etc. I know I am enabling him by not getting him out but I don't know how to go about it. I am at the end of my rope with him and if he doesn't go I am going to. How can I force him to go to mental health or remove him from my home? I am afraid some of this is also post tramatic stress disorder from time in Iraq. Appreciate any advice or suggestions.