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<blockquote data-quote="kris" data-source="post: 22519" data-attributes="member: 74"><p><span style="color: #333399">LDM made some excellent points. i believe i suggessted the same thing to you in one of yesterday's posts.....you have to get yourself straight before you can help difficult child. i know i gave you the link to the detachment essay. you need to start working on not allowing your son to suck you in to every incident, every issue.</p><p></p><p>if indeed you *jacked him up against the wall* at school i'll be extremely surpised if you don't get visit from cps. while it wouldn't be pleasant it could be extremely beneficial to your family. they can help you with-getting a neuropsychologist evaluation, treatment & other services in place. they can actually be helpful.</p><p></p><p>i also agree about not engaging husband. i also know how hard that will be. he's supposed to be your helpmate....not part of the *opposition* if you will. he's not fulfilling that.</p><p></p><p>you sound like you are feeling helpless, useless, & very desparate. it sound like the fighting in your home is pretty horrendous if they <strong>insisted </strong> you go to the crisis center. </p><p></p><p>plaese make an appointment with-your primary care physician.....please. he can help you find a good therapist for yourself....and maybe help you start on some medications (let me tell you....more moms than not take medications on this board....it's an occupational hazzard!). </p><p></p><p>deep breaths.....we're trying to help....not hurt you. i really believe the first step to getting difficult child stable is to get help for yourself ~~~ so you can help him.</p><p></p><p>kris </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kris, post: 22519, member: 74"] <span style="color: #333399">LDM made some excellent points. i believe i suggessted the same thing to you in one of yesterday's posts.....you have to get yourself straight before you can help difficult child. i know i gave you the link to the detachment essay. you need to start working on not allowing your son to suck you in to every incident, every issue. if indeed you *jacked him up against the wall* at school i'll be extremely surpised if you don't get visit from cps. while it wouldn't be pleasant it could be extremely beneficial to your family. they can help you with-getting a neuropsychologist evaluation, treatment & other services in place. they can actually be helpful. i also agree about not engaging husband. i also know how hard that will be. he's supposed to be your helpmate....not part of the *opposition* if you will. he's not fulfilling that. you sound like you are feeling helpless, useless, & very desparate. it sound like the fighting in your home is pretty horrendous if they [b]insisted [/b] you go to the crisis center. plaese make an appointment with-your primary care physician.....please. he can help you find a good therapist for yourself....and maybe help you start on some medications (let me tell you....more moms than not take medications on this board....it's an occupational hazzard!). deep breaths.....we're trying to help....not hurt you. i really believe the first step to getting difficult child stable is to get help for yourself ~~~ so you can help him. kris </span> [/QUOTE]
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