difficult child brought his girlfriend to meet me and I was pleasantly surprised. She's a very nice, intelligent girl and they seem to get along great. I really liked her a lot. She doesn't use drugs or have an alcohol problem and is very supportive of difficult child. They spent the day here and then left to pack his stuff for his move back to dex's home in NJ. He's actually going through with it. He hasn't drank or used in two weeks and has several job interviews lined up in NJ. This girl obviously means a lot to him and he really wants to try to stay clean. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.