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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 738274" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>So all three of your sons lived through the entire same experience. And trust me kids go through worse than their parents not madly in love with each other. At least you provide for them. So what if the kids ask you to divorce their father? This happens. Two of them did not let it ruin their lives.</p><p></p><p>Maybe third son is more of his father than like you. I really dont see anything in your home that would, in of itself, cause an adult to become a criminal. Sorry, but some adults grew up with two parents who didnt work and violence and not all of them decided to act out. Also not everyone in the vast mental health population mistreats their family and refuses treatment.</p><p></p><p>The theme I see from being here for over ten years is that these wayward adults are into guilting us so they bring up everything about their parents that may cause guilt, even if it is no big deal. Or a medium big deal that people deal with all the time. But they ramp up everything to major levels, probably to cause guilt in the parent who then may throw them money that they can use for drugs, housing, and even cars and other big toys.</p><p></p><p>The fact is most adults do fine in spite of imperfect parents. There is something about THESE adults. It is not about us. They are so alike and most have perfectly normal siblings, so it couldnt have been that bad.</p><p></p><p>These in my opinion are adults that want us to be Mommy and The Bank forever and know how to manipulate and guilt us. Many also finally grow up. And suddenly you stop hearing all those old complaints.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 738274, member: 1550"] So all three of your sons lived through the entire same experience. And trust me kids go through worse than their parents not madly in love with each other. At least you provide for them. So what if the kids ask you to divorce their father? This happens. Two of them did not let it ruin their lives. Maybe third son is more of his father than like you. I really dont see anything in your home that would, in of itself, cause an adult to become a criminal. Sorry, but some adults grew up with two parents who didnt work and violence and not all of them decided to act out. Also not everyone in the vast mental health population mistreats their family and refuses treatment. The theme I see from being here for over ten years is that these wayward adults are into guilting us so they bring up everything about their parents that may cause guilt, even if it is no big deal. Or a medium big deal that people deal with all the time. But they ramp up everything to major levels, probably to cause guilt in the parent who then may throw them money that they can use for drugs, housing, and even cars and other big toys. The fact is most adults do fine in spite of imperfect parents. There is something about THESE adults. It is not about us. They are so alike and most have perfectly normal siblings, so it couldnt have been that bad. These in my opinion are adults that want us to be Mommy and The Bank forever and know how to manipulate and guilt us. Many also finally grow up. And suddenly you stop hearing all those old complaints. [/QUOTE]
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