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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 23797" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>I appreciate your thoughts & concerns over this topic. I'm not convinced it's the way for husband to handle things....medications for his BiPolar (BP) are a priority in my mind.</p><p></p><p>Dazed, this is exactly how husband feels....if you're powerless, how can you say no to the problem. </p><p></p><p>I can't say if husband is trying to rationalize things or "make it easier" on himself. I let husband know that my concern (besides the medications) would be HIS definition of moderation.</p><p></p><p>Ultimately, this would be husband's choice. And the consequence would once again be his to own. husband knows my stance on alcohol over family & himself.</p><p></p><p>As I said, we have a marriage therapist appointment tomorrow. I am understandably nervous of this type of talk. husband knows my concerns & those will be addressed again in therapy tomorrow.</p><p></p><p>Since we have started marriage counseling things in our relationship have improved 100 fold. We are communicating once again - speaking with-o the anger - with love to one another. I don't want to lose that again.</p><p></p><p>husband also knows my line in the sand.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 23797, member: 393"] I appreciate your thoughts & concerns over this topic. I'm not convinced it's the way for husband to handle things....medications for his BiPolar (BP) are a priority in my mind. Dazed, this is exactly how husband feels....if you're powerless, how can you say no to the problem. I can't say if husband is trying to rationalize things or "make it easier" on himself. I let husband know that my concern (besides the medications) would be HIS definition of moderation. Ultimately, this would be husband's choice. And the consequence would once again be his to own. husband knows my stance on alcohol over family & himself. As I said, we have a marriage therapist appointment tomorrow. I am understandably nervous of this type of talk. husband knows my concerns & those will be addressed again in therapy tomorrow. Since we have started marriage counseling things in our relationship have improved 100 fold. We are communicating once again - speaking with-o the anger - with love to one another. I don't want to lose that again. husband also knows my line in the sand. [/QUOTE]
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