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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 663653" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Honestly, Queenlette, I am struck by the comment that your husband may leave you. That you fear his loyalty and love for you and your children, are in question over eaten food. That he does not want to be around your son any longer, because of the food issue. Does the punishment fit the crime?</p><p></p><p>An evaluation of your son makes sense. If there is a Children's Hospital near you they have Developmental and Neuropsychologists who can do a workup. Tell them the specific issues.</p><p></p><p>I fear that it could be that your child is being scapegoated for problems in your marriage or your issues or your husband's. There is something in psychology called an identified patient. This is when one person, usually a child is singled out for blame, to carry all of the problems of a system.</p><p></p><p>Only you as your child's mother can take responsibility if this is happening. To protect and support your child.</p><p></p><p>I understand that my words are difficult to hear. But your son's life is at stake. He needs help and support and care and understanding. You do, too. Neither one of you deserves anger. Or rejection. Or threats.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 663653, member: 18958"] Honestly, Queenlette, I am struck by the comment that your husband may leave you. That you fear his loyalty and love for you and your children, are in question over eaten food. That he does not want to be around your son any longer, because of the food issue. Does the punishment fit the crime? An evaluation of your son makes sense. If there is a Children's Hospital near you they have Developmental and Neuropsychologists who can do a workup. Tell them the specific issues. I fear that it could be that your child is being scapegoated for problems in your marriage or your issues or your husband's. There is something in psychology called an identified patient. This is when one person, usually a child is singled out for blame, to carry all of the problems of a system. Only you as your child's mother can take responsibility if this is happening. To protect and support your child. I understand that my words are difficult to hear. But your son's life is at stake. He needs help and support and care and understanding. You do, too. Neither one of you deserves anger. Or rejection. Or threats. [/QUOTE]
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