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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 677141" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>I am so glad that you will not be leaving your home. As [USER=18238]@Jabberwockey[/USER] said, it would only offer the opportunity for your son to invite his "friends" into your home and that can go bad in so many directions. God forbid one of them get hurts or OD's in your home, you could be held liable.</p><p>Your home should be YOUR sanctuary, not your son's hangout/drug den.</p><p>When my son was still a minor I found pot in his room and called the police. They arrested my son and informed me that had I not called myself, if for some reason they had to come into my home and would have found the pot, I would be the one going to jail.</p><p>I know you are concerned for your son but you also need to be concerned for your own safety and well being.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes, you need to take your life back.</p><p></p><p>You sound like you know what you need to do. Be brave and draw on the strength of all of us here. You can do this. You will get through this.</p><p></p><p>When helping isn't helping and turns to enabling we have to step away and let our children suffer the consequences of their own actions. It's painful but necessary. They are adults and have to make the choice for themselves.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you.................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 677141, member: 18516"] I am so glad that you will not be leaving your home. As [USER=18238]@Jabberwockey[/USER] said, it would only offer the opportunity for your son to invite his "friends" into your home and that can go bad in so many directions. God forbid one of them get hurts or OD's in your home, you could be held liable. Your home should be YOUR sanctuary, not your son's hangout/drug den. When my son was still a minor I found pot in his room and called the police. They arrested my son and informed me that had I not called myself, if for some reason they had to come into my home and would have found the pot, I would be the one going to jail. I know you are concerned for your son but you also need to be concerned for your own safety and well being. Yes, you need to take your life back. You sound like you know what you need to do. Be brave and draw on the strength of all of us here. You can do this. You will get through this. When helping isn't helping and turns to enabling we have to step away and let our children suffer the consequences of their own actions. It's painful but necessary. They are adults and have to make the choice for themselves. ((HUGS)) to you................. [/QUOTE]
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