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More 36 drama...I'm so over his choices
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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 632272" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>MWM, I am sorry. I am sorry that 36 continues to do what he does, and that your precious little grandson is in the middle of it. We all know that he can survive it---people survive and thrive despite many challenges---and you know what, it may make him a much stronger person down the line. Who knows? We sure don't.</p><p></p><p>You are so very healthy today. Writing it all down helps, doesn't it, like you did above? Reasoning things out. </p><p></p><p>You can look at the situation, be sad about it, wish it were different, and then, at the same time, live your own life. It IS possible to do it, and you are living proof of it. </p><p></p><p>Isn't it funny (strange funny, not funny funny) how chaos and drama follow difficult children around? </p><p></p><p>Where there is a difficult child, there is chaos. Where there is a difficult child, there is drama. Where there is a difficult child, there is a whole bunch of hot mess to be untangled and figured out. </p><p></p><p>Where there is a difficult child, there is a deep deep hole, all the way down to China, to be dug out of.</p><p></p><p>And it is THEIR job----not OURS----to figure out. They made it, they can unmake it. Yes it's hard. Yes it seems almost impossible to us. </p><p></p><p>Like SO says, it takes a long, long time to walk into the forest. It will take a long, long time to walk out. </p><p></p><p>And it's the walk itself that will teach them, if they ever are going to learn, how to live life on life's terms. </p><p></p><p>If they don't have to walk that long, long walk themselves---if other people give them a ride instead----nothing will change.</p><p></p><p>MWM, YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY TODAY! Okay? The sun is shining, the birds are singing, and you have choices. Warm hugs, you Great Warrior Mom, You!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 632272, member: 17542"] MWM, I am sorry. I am sorry that 36 continues to do what he does, and that your precious little grandson is in the middle of it. We all know that he can survive it---people survive and thrive despite many challenges---and you know what, it may make him a much stronger person down the line. Who knows? We sure don't. You are so very healthy today. Writing it all down helps, doesn't it, like you did above? Reasoning things out. You can look at the situation, be sad about it, wish it were different, and then, at the same time, live your own life. It IS possible to do it, and you are living proof of it. Isn't it funny (strange funny, not funny funny) how chaos and drama follow difficult children around? Where there is a difficult child, there is chaos. Where there is a difficult child, there is drama. Where there is a difficult child, there is a whole bunch of hot mess to be untangled and figured out. Where there is a difficult child, there is a deep deep hole, all the way down to China, to be dug out of. And it is THEIR job----not OURS----to figure out. They made it, they can unmake it. Yes it's hard. Yes it seems almost impossible to us. Like SO says, it takes a long, long time to walk into the forest. It will take a long, long time to walk out. And it's the walk itself that will teach them, if they ever are going to learn, how to live life on life's terms. If they don't have to walk that long, long walk themselves---if other people give them a ride instead----nothing will change. MWM, YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY TODAY! Okay? The sun is shining, the birds are singing, and you have choices. Warm hugs, you Great Warrior Mom, You! [/QUOTE]
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