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<blockquote data-quote="Janna" data-source="post: 17350" data-attributes="member: 2737"><p>Hey Amy,</p><p></p><p>Sorry I haven't been around, but I wanted to post here, because I can tell how frustrated you sound (and have been there done that, too).</p><p></p><p>The thing that I'm thinking about here is, didn't the TSS that spent the last 8 months with you TEACH YOU what he/she was doing to keep the "calm" in the home? That should have been his/her job, not doing it for you.</p><p></p><p>Wrap Around, at least the several that I have gone through, has never been intended as a long term service. Their goal is to get in, teach the behavioral mod, and get out.</p><p></p><p>So, food for thought, if your TSS hasn't taught you anything in the past 8 months, or has left your family in the same state of confusion as you were pre-TSS, he/she didn't really do their job.</p><p></p><p>With that being said, we have had good TSS's, and crappy ones. In all honesty, the crappy ones were the ones that were my babysitters. They're the ones that kept my kids happy while I cooked and cleaned. Yeah, it was nice, but no, they didn't teach me a darn thing.</p><p></p><p>The good ONE (out of 7) I had was the one that came into my home, told me the things he saw that I was doing wrong or inconsistently, and taught me how to change it. Then, transitioned out.</p><p></p><p>Just out loud thoughts.</p><p></p><p>Janna</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Janna, post: 17350, member: 2737"] Hey Amy, Sorry I haven't been around, but I wanted to post here, because I can tell how frustrated you sound (and have been there done that, too). The thing that I'm thinking about here is, didn't the TSS that spent the last 8 months with you TEACH YOU what he/she was doing to keep the "calm" in the home? That should have been his/her job, not doing it for you. Wrap Around, at least the several that I have gone through, has never been intended as a long term service. Their goal is to get in, teach the behavioral mod, and get out. So, food for thought, if your TSS hasn't taught you anything in the past 8 months, or has left your family in the same state of confusion as you were pre-TSS, he/she didn't really do their job. With that being said, we have had good TSS's, and crappy ones. In all honesty, the crappy ones were the ones that were my babysitters. They're the ones that kept my kids happy while I cooked and cleaned. Yeah, it was nice, but no, they didn't teach me a darn thing. The good ONE (out of 7) I had was the one that came into my home, told me the things he saw that I was doing wrong or inconsistently, and taught me how to change it. Then, transitioned out. Just out loud thoughts. Janna [/QUOTE]
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