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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 654267" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Your son is way too old for you to think of as a child. Think of it this way. He is only 13?? (my math is bad) years younger than yous HUSBAND. Do you think your husband was a kid at 43 or 45? Your son doesn't have too far to go to be 50. Are you going to care for him when he is 50? 60? Until you have squandered your very life for him?</p><p></p><p>Your son turned his back on himself. You never turned your back on him. He is the one refusing to get straight, go to places that help you find work, taking good care of himself...he is the one letting himself down. It is not something you can do for him BECAUSE he is a middle aged man.</p><p></p><p>Does he realize you are aging? Does he ever call just to ask, "Hey, Mom, I'm worried about you and just want to make sure YOU'RE all right" without asking for a favor from you? Will he ever be there for YOU if you need him? When he violated your rights, HE turned his back on YOU.</p><p></p><p>I hope you can finally find peace and serenity. This is no way to spend what are supposed to be our golden years and I would try, if I were you, to put distance between him and you and husband. You need a break and he doesn't need a mommy. It's the last thing he needs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 654267, member: 1550"] Your son is way too old for you to think of as a child. Think of it this way. He is only 13?? (my math is bad) years younger than yous HUSBAND. Do you think your husband was a kid at 43 or 45? Your son doesn't have too far to go to be 50. Are you going to care for him when he is 50? 60? Until you have squandered your very life for him? Your son turned his back on himself. You never turned your back on him. He is the one refusing to get straight, go to places that help you find work, taking good care of himself...he is the one letting himself down. It is not something you can do for him BECAUSE he is a middle aged man. Does he realize you are aging? Does he ever call just to ask, "Hey, Mom, I'm worried about you and just want to make sure YOU'RE all right" without asking for a favor from you? Will he ever be there for YOU if you need him? When he violated your rights, HE turned his back on YOU. I hope you can finally find peace and serenity. This is no way to spend what are supposed to be our golden years and I would try, if I were you, to put distance between him and you and husband. You need a break and he doesn't need a mommy. It's the last thing he needs. [/QUOTE]
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