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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 649468" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>2much2recover actually mean's I can not recover my relationship with Difficult Child, and I recently ( before I found this group) I realized that I can't have her in my life. I can't do it. I am way too physicality ill to do it anymore. I no longer have the capacity to even try to outsmart, outwit her. A relationship with a sociopath is nothing but games of me, me, me! She would actually call to "check " on me, and when she would hear from me that I was having a really painful time she would mimic that she was sorry and " poor mommy" then keep me on the phone with a bunch of nothing for long periods of time and even call me later in the evening, disrupting my much needed rest. She never offered any help to me or my husband, my main caregiver, and in fact had no respect for him or the great job he does in caring for me. Personally, I began to believe the only reason she bothered was she was trying to figure out a way to finagle some chunk of money from us for one of her schemes. Yep, that's right, after she had already cheated me out of my money meant to take care of me because I am disabled, she thought we were stupid enough to do it again! I can't recover the relationship because she is predatory and my husband and I have to protect ourselves from her so we can continue to live a comfortable life AND save from what we do have for my long term health needs. </p><p>We ( husband and I) have been through some real ugliness with Difficult Child and we won't do it anymore. </p><p>While sociopaths are different than psychopaths in that a psychopath is much more violent than a sociopath, dealing with a sociopath can be a real soul killer. And we don't kid ourselves that she could turn to violence to financially enhance her own life if she didn't fear the consequences. </p><p></p><p>As things come up in this group that remind me of her sick behavior I will share more of what life with her has been like. There is just so much it is overwhelming to do all at once. I, tried, Lord knows I tried but I am no match for the games she plays so I am out!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 649468, member: 18366"] 2much2recover actually mean's I can not recover my relationship with Difficult Child, and I recently ( before I found this group) I realized that I can't have her in my life. I can't do it. I am way too physicality ill to do it anymore. I no longer have the capacity to even try to outsmart, outwit her. A relationship with a sociopath is nothing but games of me, me, me! She would actually call to "check " on me, and when she would hear from me that I was having a really painful time she would mimic that she was sorry and " poor mommy" then keep me on the phone with a bunch of nothing for long periods of time and even call me later in the evening, disrupting my much needed rest. She never offered any help to me or my husband, my main caregiver, and in fact had no respect for him or the great job he does in caring for me. Personally, I began to believe the only reason she bothered was she was trying to figure out a way to finagle some chunk of money from us for one of her schemes. Yep, that's right, after she had already cheated me out of my money meant to take care of me because I am disabled, she thought we were stupid enough to do it again! I can't recover the relationship because she is predatory and my husband and I have to protect ourselves from her so we can continue to live a comfortable life AND save from what we do have for my long term health needs. We ( husband and I) have been through some real ugliness with Difficult Child and we won't do it anymore. While sociopaths are different than psychopaths in that a psychopath is much more violent than a sociopath, dealing with a sociopath can be a real soul killer. And we don't kid ourselves that she could turn to violence to financially enhance her own life if she didn't fear the consequences. As things come up in this group that remind me of her sick behavior I will share more of what life with her has been like. There is just so much it is overwhelming to do all at once. I, tried, Lord knows I tried but I am no match for the games she plays so I am out! [/QUOTE]
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