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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 676186" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Yep. And to get the family as a whole to gang up on me. Which I'm used to and have learned not to care bout, but, yes, this is her intent. She always needs somebody to pick on...it was my brother first.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I understand what you are saying, dear friend. It actually started with my mother and now my sister switched from meanly picking on my brother to me. Yet she kept coming back to me, without apology, and I took her back. This is even after she would call the police on me, even after we moved out of state, partly to leave her far away. Not that I have never said a mean thing back to her, but never would I have initiated a shun for ANY reason. And she can be very SHUNNING. She refused to invite my brother to her wedding because he was "ugly." I will never forget that. My mother was really in a tizzy about thhat, but, in the end, mother went to wedding. It's just a mess. She's a mess. We all turned out to be messes. But I believe strongly that I turned out the least messed up because I saw it and went for help from early on.</p><p>I am sick of her misperceptions and following me to my places I post and reading my words, but I can't stop her. If she dislikes me so much, why does she want to read what I think? Well, probably to make fun of me with my brother, who is now her BFF. Truly, I don't get it. However, of late it doesn't hurt me anymore. It's just annoying, like being stalked. Yet it is MY choice to be annoyed. I am learning to blow it off.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Yep. I did tease my sister when I was a kid and my mother allowed it. That's what she calls abuse. Obviously, it was not nice, but I was a kid. My mother did nothing. And my father was never home. At th e same time, she was picking on Brother, and nobody stopped her. We lived in chaos and anarchy. Do what you want to do. No protection.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Well, she will still read every word I write here, but I have a New Years resolution to stay only on t his site. I don't have to throw fuel on her fire on other sites. Today is a new year <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>Thanks for the feedback, Leafie. You and Cedar are 100% correct and thanks!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 676186, member: 1550"] Yep. And to get the family as a whole to gang up on me. Which I'm used to and have learned not to care bout, but, yes, this is her intent. She always needs somebody to pick on...it was my brother first. I understand what you are saying, dear friend. It actually started with my mother and now my sister switched from meanly picking on my brother to me. Yet she kept coming back to me, without apology, and I took her back. This is even after she would call the police on me, even after we moved out of state, partly to leave her far away. Not that I have never said a mean thing back to her, but never would I have initiated a shun for ANY reason. And she can be very SHUNNING. She refused to invite my brother to her wedding because he was "ugly." I will never forget that. My mother was really in a tizzy about thhat, but, in the end, mother went to wedding. It's just a mess. She's a mess. We all turned out to be messes. But I believe strongly that I turned out the least messed up because I saw it and went for help from early on. I am sick of her misperceptions and following me to my places I post and reading my words, but I can't stop her. If she dislikes me so much, why does she want to read what I think? Well, probably to make fun of me with my brother, who is now her BFF. Truly, I don't get it. However, of late it doesn't hurt me anymore. It's just annoying, like being stalked. Yet it is MY choice to be annoyed. I am learning to blow it off. Yep. I did tease my sister when I was a kid and my mother allowed it. That's what she calls abuse. Obviously, it was not nice, but I was a kid. My mother did nothing. And my father was never home. At th e same time, she was picking on Brother, and nobody stopped her. We lived in chaos and anarchy. Do what you want to do. No protection. Well, she will still read every word I write here, but I have a New Years resolution to stay only on t his site. I don't have to throw fuel on her fire on other sites. Today is a new year :) Thanks for the feedback, Leafie. You and Cedar are 100% correct and thanks! [/QUOTE]
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