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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 669611" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Hi Headlights Mom, I'm glad you're here. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes, that is a fear I think we all have. We want so much for them to be better....and then if and when it comes...then we are terrified that it won't last...and so we continue to live in fear.</p><p></p><p>When can we live free of fear? Are we to always be afraid?</p><p></p><p>When I can stop and think about it...look at the view from 30,000 feet instead of down here, on earth, face to face...everybody can live in fear. Fear of everything, every loss, every uncertainty, that the people we love will be lost to us now and forever. And we will be alone. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>All of the intense emotion is so exhausting. You are hurting and afraid and even seeing the potential for change in yourself at the same time, which is so intense. You are fully alive, but boy is it hard to feel that much. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>So much at the same time. Too much.</p><p> </p><p></p><p></p><p>To be able to hold both states of mind and heart constant, is truly amazing to listen to. This is what true change brings us. We can be scared and sad for people we love so desperately, so much, we hope so much for them...and at the same time, can be grateful for all we have and all that has been given to us, regardless.</p><p></p><p>Perhaps...you are seeing this as a part of life....this ebb and flow and fear and grief...this intensity for your precious so...it is part of life. The hardest part. </p><p></p><p>I see so much in what you write. Thank you for sharing and helping me today. Warm hugs. I hope and pray he is safe and will soon turn around again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 669611, member: 17542"] Hi Headlights Mom, I'm glad you're here. Yes, that is a fear I think we all have. We want so much for them to be better....and then if and when it comes...then we are terrified that it won't last...and so we continue to live in fear. When can we live free of fear? Are we to always be afraid? When I can stop and think about it...look at the view from 30,000 feet instead of down here, on earth, face to face...everybody can live in fear. Fear of everything, every loss, every uncertainty, that the people we love will be lost to us now and forever. And we will be alone. All of the intense emotion is so exhausting. You are hurting and afraid and even seeing the potential for change in yourself at the same time, which is so intense. You are fully alive, but boy is it hard to feel that much. So much at the same time. Too much. To be able to hold both states of mind and heart constant, is truly amazing to listen to. This is what true change brings us. We can be scared and sad for people we love so desperately, so much, we hope so much for them...and at the same time, can be grateful for all we have and all that has been given to us, regardless. Perhaps...you are seeing this as a part of life....this ebb and flow and fear and grief...this intensity for your precious so...it is part of life. The hardest part. I see so much in what you write. Thank you for sharing and helping me today. Warm hugs. I hope and pray he is safe and will soon turn around again. [/QUOTE]
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