Good morning! Thought that I'd stop in for an update. The kids and I are back at home. My husband signed over the house to us and has moved in with his parents. He has finally started trying to learn about what's going on with L although he still doesn't quite "get it". That is going to take time. In the meantime, he has signed over parental rights to him to me and has agreed to only have contact with him in a theraputic session. L is starting to open up about his feelings toward his father. They are small verbal outbursts that are blurted out. He has said that he hates his dad because he lives the other kids more and has felt that way since he was 6. I am going to strike while the iron is hot and call today to get him in to a private therapist ASAP. Maybe, just maybe, we can make some progress. My husband has decided to go to counselling. It's something that he has fought for years. I think that by leaving, it made him open his eyes. The divorce papers are still in play and won't be removed unless I see constant progress in the situation. This is all so hard but I am trying to take it one day at a time.