husband's mom and dad picked the kids up from school for us today while we were off getting his MRI and EEG in LA. When we got back, I learned the difficult child 2 forgot his afternoon medications (again) at school (I noticed he was really squirrely and starting to fall apart, so I asked him point blank). mother in law pipes up, "He was really good for me all afternoon. Seems like he only acts up when you're around." She said this two more times throughout the course of the evening when we were out at dinner. I wanted to smack her! Yeah, your grandson has a mental illness and it's all because I don't know how to parent him! (Of course, I refrained from reminding her how out of control he got with her last February when she was in charge while I was at the hospital with husband for his surgery... she had things in such good control that she ended up slapping difficult child 2 and making him hysterical to the point that he was sobbing to me he wanted her and grandpa to go home and he didn't like them anymore!) I've been dealing with this family for 20 years and I think I'm about finished.