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Most difficult years of my life
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<blockquote data-quote="Jabberwockey" data-source="post: 725714" data-attributes="member: 18238"><p>Then maybe its time to go no contact. Easy to say but much harder to do. Remember that HE is making these choices. HE is doing all those things that are keeping him down. The reason he lays the guilt trip on you is to get money out of you.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>This is going to sound cold blooded but sometimes that's how you need to be. If he violates that restraining order, that's on him. If he ends up in prison, that's because of what HE does. Not your fault. That being said, I know how badly that can affect you. Having my son arrested just for a day tore me up but it was still his fault, not mine.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jabberwockey, post: 725714, member: 18238"] Then maybe its time to go no contact. Easy to say but much harder to do. Remember that HE is making these choices. HE is doing all those things that are keeping him down. The reason he lays the guilt trip on you is to get money out of you. This is going to sound cold blooded but sometimes that's how you need to be. If he violates that restraining order, that's on him. If he ends up in prison, that's because of what HE does. Not your fault. That being said, I know how badly that can affect you. Having my son arrested just for a day tore me up but it was still his fault, not mine. [/QUOTE]
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