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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 760408" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi Crayola, thank you for sharing your experience. I think your perspective with your sons biological mom is spot on, I try to view Tornadoes choices similarly, but admittedly have a hard time framing all of this in that positive light, I am too connected to her history. Her older children have had such a difficult time growing up with two addicted parents. I am conflicted with the prospect of Tornado seeking to reunify with her baby, I want her to get well, to stop using, but can’t see another child being raised with so much instability. Of course I think of Hoku and her child, how tough it would be for them, if reunification becomes a reality. These are all things I have no control over, so I need to step back emotionally and take this day by day.</p><p></p><p>I’m so glad that your son had his grandmother from an early age. It’s so sad that she passed so soon. </p><p>I have read that though we don’t remember much of our life start before two, the <em>body</em> remembers. My grandson has adjusted in these past two weeks, but has moments where he is inconsolable. I hope that he will overcome whatever challenges he may face.</p><p>I am so sorry that your son suffers from anxiety and depression. It must be exacerbated by the difficulties we are living under with the pandemic. I hope and pray he will find peace. </p><p>I hope and pray we all do.</p><p>Hugs</p><p>New Leaf</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 760408, member: 19522"] Hi Crayola, thank you for sharing your experience. I think your perspective with your sons biological mom is spot on, I try to view Tornadoes choices similarly, but admittedly have a hard time framing all of this in that positive light, I am too connected to her history. Her older children have had such a difficult time growing up with two addicted parents. I am conflicted with the prospect of Tornado seeking to reunify with her baby, I want her to get well, to stop using, but can’t see another child being raised with so much instability. Of course I think of Hoku and her child, how tough it would be for them, if reunification becomes a reality. These are all things I have no control over, so I need to step back emotionally and take this day by day. I’m so glad that your son had his grandmother from an early age. It’s so sad that she passed so soon. I have read that though we don’t remember much of our life start before two, the [I]body[/I] remembers. My grandson has adjusted in these past two weeks, but has moments where he is inconsolable. I hope that he will overcome whatever challenges he may face. I am so sorry that your son suffers from anxiety and depression. It must be exacerbated by the difficulties we are living under with the pandemic. I hope and pray he will find peace. I hope and pray we all do. Hugs New Leaf [/QUOTE]
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