Well mothers day wasn't too bad. My difficult child son showed up for dinner on time, which was just going out for pizza, stayed for an hour and left. Of course apologized for not being able to afford to buy me anything, though a card would have been nice My easy child daughter on the other hand went away to New Jersey for the weekend to her cousins bachelorette party and came home to hung over to do anything but go upstairs and go to bed the minute she hit the door!!!!! Anyway, most of difficult child's conversation during the hour I saw him on mothers day is how him and girlfriend can't stand the hotel anymore and need to get out of there. My boyfriend kept telling him how if him and girlfriend are both working full time and give me money to hold onto each week, they could eventually save up for an apartment. He has never had the ability to think forward to anything and save for anything. When he wants something he wants it yesterday. He called yesterday to tell me that the lady in the office at the hotel where he has been living for 3 months told him that an older guy who works the desk sometime charged them wrong a few times over the last few months and they owe 6 days. Now difficult child was well aware of this because he told me a few times that he went down and would pay for 4 days and the guy would say he was all set for 5 days, or 6 days and he thought he was getting away with it, but it caught up to him. So now he's trying to figure out how to move out of there immediatley without having to pay the 6 days because it's not his fault and he asked me if I would consider writing a check for $1,200.00 for a security deposit on an apartment they found and could move into right away. What is he crazy???? I told him he better go down to the office this morning and work out the bill unless he's moving out today, and him and girlfriend better figure out how to start saving money, so they can move out eventually!! One step forward, two steps back!!!