I just need to vent a bit out my difficult child and mother's day. Just a quick recap of where we are at this point. husband kicked out difficult child for the whole weekend last Friday because he had a bunch of friends in our house and were smoking pot while we were at work. We told N he could come back Monday evening, but we didn't hear from him until much later in the week. Friday night he said he wanted to come home so that he could make it to his work project (sentencing) on Saturday & Sunday mornings. Of course the work project officer turned him away Saturday because he was late and wearing shorts which are against the rules. On Sunday he showed up on time (whew). husband, easy child daughter & myself had to go to a family mother's day brunch which was pretty painful (everyone is kind of a snobby there, plus my mother only likes to talk about herself). But we had mimosas, whoohoo!! Anyway, I wanted to go to the movies with N and my family after he returned from work project. We didn't know where he was, but when we called him he wanted to go with us and would be home in 20 minutes. Thirty minutes pass and husband tells him we are leaving at 4:00 no matter what. Time comes, N does not show up and is not answering his phone. After the movie husband calls our son and the difficult child is busy driving his friend to go see his grandmother for mother's day. My husband blew up and asked N if he planned to spend any time with his own mother. N's only response was "well, my friend already gave me gas money to drive him". AARRGG!! I know not to expect so much from him, but it's so frustrating and tiring. It's now almost 9:00pm and I haven't even seen him, and don't really know if I want to. Last week when we had no idea where he was or how he was doing was actually much better than this weekend with him home. How sad is that? Thanks for listening, I really needed to vent. My husband really tried hard for me to have a nice weekend, so I felt kind of bad complaining about this one thing to him. I'm glad I have this board for this reason.