I've run into a bit of a pickle, my leasing office originally told me they'd work with me on the terms of my lease since husband is coming home from deployment just as the lease ended. In two years they've never treated me poorly so I expected the manager to stick to her word. At the same time I would have had to give my 60 day notice, management and structure changed. Now I'm stuck in this 2 bedroom for another year OR I have to pay mass amounts of money to get out of here and I can't do that. Right now easy child is 9 months old and sharing my room. husband will be home soon and trust me, with his snoring easy child will be up all night! difficult child is going to sleep much easier and although she wakes at night she comes straight to me quietly. Her violent tendencies are only happening during the day and muted to the point that they are barely there. easy child sleeps through the night mostly and I hear her instantly even if I'm on the other side of the house. Usually if easy child wakes up, difficult child woke her or vice versa. How on earth do I approach this? Currently difficult child's room is painted with pink and green stripes and she LOVES to help me paint and decorate so I kind of thought I could take her to the store to pick out new bedding and paint and maybe we could kind of divide the room with color schemes? Help! lol easy child can't stay in our room after husband comes home, nobody will get any sleep.