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<blockquote data-quote="JMom" data-source="post: 757546" data-attributes="member: 19892"><p>Beta,</p><p></p><p>Beta,</p><p>It's going to be hard to put my thoughts into words. I too, admire you for starting and ending in love. The messiness in the middle is the hardest part to clean up, that is where we lose ourselves. I think this break may be a good chance to focus on you and the joy you deserve. You will get to come home from your worship and allow it to last and not be sidetracked. It feels good and hurts in church, but I think the hope is what rises to the top. </p><p></p><p>Your conversation with the hair stylist and her son resonates with me. My very dearest friend has two children who were very disciplined, intelligent and have never been in trouble. I can tell she doesn't want to share their successes because she knows I don't get those celebrations. I did make sure to tell her how proud of them I am and have always been. She deserves to enjoy those successes. We've never talked about it, I can just tell that she is being loving in that way.</p><p></p><p>I remember when I was in your similar situation, the first person that was nice to me made me cry uncontrollably. It's a strange thing when you realize how abused you have felt. I am sorry that you are longing for your son to be kind and to be near, I think we all hope for similar outcomes. When I was at my lowest point the ladies on this site shared some of the wisdom that they are sharing with you now.</p><p></p><p>Soak up the warmth, prayers and genuine concern for you, it is real and the overwhelming love in palpable. You have my love and prayers.</p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p><p>JMOM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JMom, post: 757546, member: 19892"] Beta, Beta, It's going to be hard to put my thoughts into words. I too, admire you for starting and ending in love. The messiness in the middle is the hardest part to clean up, that is where we lose ourselves. I think this break may be a good chance to focus on you and the joy you deserve. You will get to come home from your worship and allow it to last and not be sidetracked. It feels good and hurts in church, but I think the hope is what rises to the top. Your conversation with the hair stylist and her son resonates with me. My very dearest friend has two children who were very disciplined, intelligent and have never been in trouble. I can tell she doesn't want to share their successes because she knows I don't get those celebrations. I did make sure to tell her how proud of them I am and have always been. She deserves to enjoy those successes. We've never talked about it, I can just tell that she is being loving in that way. I remember when I was in your similar situation, the first person that was nice to me made me cry uncontrollably. It's a strange thing when you realize how abused you have felt. I am sorry that you are longing for your son to be kind and to be near, I think we all hope for similar outcomes. When I was at my lowest point the ladies on this site shared some of the wisdom that they are sharing with you now. Soak up the warmth, prayers and genuine concern for you, it is real and the overwhelming love in palpable. You have my love and prayers. Hugs. JMOM [/QUOTE]
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