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MrMike: Still in the same boat as 4 years ago
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<blockquote data-quote="wisernow" data-source="post: 708927" data-attributes="member: 20373"><p>agree with all of who posted. There needs to be consequences for his poor behavior and you and your wife and daughter deserve a safe home. Can you have him move to a relatives house for a short while so you can step back and take some time to process? Perhaps he needs time to process as well. I found that when the drama was taking place we were so entrenched in it , it was hard to see the big picture. A social worker told us that our crazy household had become the new norm...we were like rabbits in the slowly warming cooking pot..and were paralyzed by our feelings. Our vision of what a relationship should be like with our son had taken on a horrific persona....and it was killing all of us. walking on egg shells, always trying to smooth out things. Well what that taught my son, who by the way is also mentally ill is that he could manipulate things accordingly.Long story short, he now lives in a group home, yes our family imploded but we are all doing much better. Please continue on with therapy but I think for now don't let him return. You need to take a few steps back. Hugs to you</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wisernow, post: 708927, member: 20373"] agree with all of who posted. There needs to be consequences for his poor behavior and you and your wife and daughter deserve a safe home. Can you have him move to a relatives house for a short while so you can step back and take some time to process? Perhaps he needs time to process as well. I found that when the drama was taking place we were so entrenched in it , it was hard to see the big picture. A social worker told us that our crazy household had become the new norm...we were like rabbits in the slowly warming cooking pot..and were paralyzed by our feelings. Our vision of what a relationship should be like with our son had taken on a horrific persona....and it was killing all of us. walking on egg shells, always trying to smooth out things. Well what that taught my son, who by the way is also mentally ill is that he could manipulate things accordingly.Long story short, he now lives in a group home, yes our family imploded but we are all doing much better. Please continue on with therapy but I think for now don't let him return. You need to take a few steps back. Hugs to you [/QUOTE]
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