I have a 16 year old almost 17 has bipolar/defiant/Add/ADHD. He has been in residential placements ordered by the school district for 5 years he was so out of control. He returned home September 2010. It has been a complete nightmere. He's smoking pot, refusing to attend school, sneaking out and lies like you would not believe. I feel like i just want him to leave. The police cannot do anything, the school says well let's hope he comes tomorrow. I have taken everything away from him. No internet, no cell phone, he has nothing. He has a bed, food and a place to shower. I am at my wits end. Does anyone have similar situation?