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My 17 yr son is using/dealing marijuana. What else should I do??
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 701880" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>The last thing my daughter screamed at me as she left was "I will hate you forever!"</p><p></p><p>I was the bad guy. I cried for three weeks.</p><p></p><p>Her feelings did not last. Now she has her own house and rules such as you take your shoes off before you come in and, yes, no smoking...lol.</p><p></p><p>Not all adult kids respond to tough love, but I don't think ANY respond to walking all over u.s. After all, I think the military and fire fighters drug test and your son will follow their rules or work bussing tables. My husband, a ten year vet, told me many times that in the military your life is not your own. What they say, you do. Where they tell you to do something , you do. When they tell you to move, you move. Much worse mom saying don't sell/smoke grass on property.</p><p></p><p>My daughter is in her last year of school for law enforcement. Pretty sure a positive pot test would end her career before it stops.</p><p></p><p>They all have to understand that if they live with or work for somebody else, they are NOT in charge of the rules. That's life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 701880, member: 1550"] The last thing my daughter screamed at me as she left was "I will hate you forever!" I was the bad guy. I cried for three weeks. Her feelings did not last. Now she has her own house and rules such as you take your shoes off before you come in and, yes, no smoking...lol. Not all adult kids respond to tough love, but I don't think ANY respond to walking all over u.s. After all, I think the military and fire fighters drug test and your son will follow their rules or work bussing tables. My husband, a ten year vet, told me many times that in the military your life is not your own. What they say, you do. Where they tell you to do something , you do. When they tell you to move, you move. Much worse mom saying don't sell/smoke grass on property. My daughter is in her last year of school for law enforcement. Pretty sure a positive pot test would end her career before it stops. They all have to understand that if they live with or work for somebody else, they are NOT in charge of the rules. That's life. [/QUOTE]
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