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My 19 year old son is threatening suicide because he said he is sick of even being here
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<blockquote data-quote="justwanthappiness" data-source="post: 719615" data-attributes="member: 22284"><p>Susiestar I never knew a DNA test could be done to determine the proper medicine - I will definitely insist he has that done! Everyone here has been very supportive and I am thankful so I want to give you all an update. My fiancé and I talked it out last night (I argued, he talked) I was reacting out of panic because I want my son fixed Now. To be completely honest, I am terrified and I felt like if his girlfriend stayed with him that would comfort him so I was pushing it. My fiancé's stand on this is that he feels my son, although paying rent, should have more respect for his fiance' than to move her into a camper. He also feels like if my son is so busy working to provide his own place then hopefully he will pull out of this depression on his own. He told me he does not care if she visits my son every single day but she needs to go home at a decent time so he can be rested to work toward a place for them. I may have left this out but his son also pays rent and lives inside the house; the reason for him not wanting his son to have a girl spend the night is because he doesn't want some young girl in the house half naked. I don't want that either. I just wanted my son fixed because my heart is breaking. I have never had a man in my life that could actually lead a family, never had that as a child, never had a leader in either of my 2 marriages so it is hard for me to swallow. I have always had to be the leader (Or felt like I had to be) and evidently my decisions have come from a mother's viewpoint which looks like it's not good for a son. My fiancé talked to my son last night and I stayed away while they talked - hard to do! My son wasn't happy when he left, but he wasn't raging mad either; I wonder if it actually made my son feel good that a man finally took enough interest in him to talk to him about this? I got out of bed last night and just had some quiet time in prayer on what to do. I laid back down and an idea hit me to sell the camper and help my son get his own place to rent - My son did express to me out of anger yesterday that he only planned on living in the camper for 2 months anyway. I found a farmhouse this morning, not fancy but it would be something my son and his fiancé could afford, it's not too far away but far enough for my son to have his space with no one telling him who can spend the night with him and alleviating any further disagreements between me and my fiancé -therefore, I hope we can all come together on good terms and all get along, building a stable environment for my son. I hope my fiancé will agree with this solution - I will find out tonight when I talk with him. From what I have said in this post what do you all think? I feel like I was in the wrong and I didn't see the whole picture..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="justwanthappiness, post: 719615, member: 22284"] Susiestar I never knew a DNA test could be done to determine the proper medicine - I will definitely insist he has that done! Everyone here has been very supportive and I am thankful so I want to give you all an update. My fiancé and I talked it out last night (I argued, he talked) I was reacting out of panic because I want my son fixed Now. To be completely honest, I am terrified and I felt like if his girlfriend stayed with him that would comfort him so I was pushing it. My fiancé's stand on this is that he feels my son, although paying rent, should have more respect for his fiance' than to move her into a camper. He also feels like if my son is so busy working to provide his own place then hopefully he will pull out of this depression on his own. He told me he does not care if she visits my son every single day but she needs to go home at a decent time so he can be rested to work toward a place for them. I may have left this out but his son also pays rent and lives inside the house; the reason for him not wanting his son to have a girl spend the night is because he doesn't want some young girl in the house half naked. I don't want that either. I just wanted my son fixed because my heart is breaking. I have never had a man in my life that could actually lead a family, never had that as a child, never had a leader in either of my 2 marriages so it is hard for me to swallow. I have always had to be the leader (Or felt like I had to be) and evidently my decisions have come from a mother's viewpoint which looks like it's not good for a son. My fiancé talked to my son last night and I stayed away while they talked - hard to do! My son wasn't happy when he left, but he wasn't raging mad either; I wonder if it actually made my son feel good that a man finally took enough interest in him to talk to him about this? I got out of bed last night and just had some quiet time in prayer on what to do. I laid back down and an idea hit me to sell the camper and help my son get his own place to rent - My son did express to me out of anger yesterday that he only planned on living in the camper for 2 months anyway. I found a farmhouse this morning, not fancy but it would be something my son and his fiancé could afford, it's not too far away but far enough for my son to have his space with no one telling him who can spend the night with him and alleviating any further disagreements between me and my fiancé -therefore, I hope we can all come together on good terms and all get along, building a stable environment for my son. I hope my fiancé will agree with this solution - I will find out tonight when I talk with him. From what I have said in this post what do you all think? I feel like I was in the wrong and I didn't see the whole picture.. [/QUOTE]
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