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My 20yr.old..mood swings or personality disorder?
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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 630474" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>I agree with TL.</p><p> </p><p>I also think it says alot that you are afraid for your daughter to be alone with male members of the family. From your description your husband is a recovered addict and his brother is as well. Do you feel ok leaving your daughter unsupervised with husband? Do you have any indication that any member of his family is a pedophile? Just because someone has a drug issue doesn't mean they are a pedophile. If the situation arose you wouldn't have a choice about where he was allowed to take your daughter unless you could prove the place/person was unsafe.</p><p> </p><p>In the long run divorce is your decision and I dont know if it is a good idea or not since I am not a member of your family. Having said that it is not a good idea to stay in an unhappy or unhealthy situation because of a fear of something you have no indication will happen.</p><p> </p><p>Maybe the reason husband has less tolerance for your difficult child is because he knows that tolerating the behavior/drug abuse doesn't help. His anger and lack of patience may be because he knows more about what difficult child is doing and knows that nothing you or husband do will heal him. It may simply be his way of dealing with difficult child. Maybe he is harder on difficult child because you are so soft with him?</p><p> </p><p>There are alot of questions to be answered.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 630474, member: 15473"] I agree with TL. I also think it says alot that you are afraid for your daughter to be alone with male members of the family. From your description your husband is a recovered addict and his brother is as well. Do you feel ok leaving your daughter unsupervised with husband? Do you have any indication that any member of his family is a pedophile? Just because someone has a drug issue doesn't mean they are a pedophile. If the situation arose you wouldn't have a choice about where he was allowed to take your daughter unless you could prove the place/person was unsafe. In the long run divorce is your decision and I dont know if it is a good idea or not since I am not a member of your family. Having said that it is not a good idea to stay in an unhappy or unhealthy situation because of a fear of something you have no indication will happen. Maybe the reason husband has less tolerance for your difficult child is because he knows that tolerating the behavior/drug abuse doesn't help. His anger and lack of patience may be because he knows more about what difficult child is doing and knows that nothing you or husband do will heal him. It may simply be his way of dealing with difficult child. Maybe he is harder on difficult child because you are so soft with him? There are alot of questions to be answered. [/QUOTE]
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