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<blockquote data-quote="Triedntrue" data-source="post: 728286" data-attributes="member: 21499"><p>I totally agree with kalahou, new leaf and recovering enabler. My son has told me i am dead to him on more than one occasion. The last time i found myself thinking good then leave me alone. None of us were perfect parents there is no such thing. Even if we made mistakes we do not deserve to spend the rest of our lives trying to make up for them. I am reading the book codependence no more that was mentioned above and there is a chapter called " have a love affair with yourself" she talks about valuing yourself. That is important. You are worth it. If your daughter has to take care of herself she too will learn how to value herself. It is not just for you it is for her. She will feel better about herself and happier if she feels a sense of accomplishment. You need to be good to yourself and give her that chance. If you stop helping her maybe you could get down to one job. Make a goal to do something that would make you happy for a change. I will be praying for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Triedntrue, post: 728286, member: 21499"] I totally agree with kalahou, new leaf and recovering enabler. My son has told me i am dead to him on more than one occasion. The last time i found myself thinking good then leave me alone. None of us were perfect parents there is no such thing. Even if we made mistakes we do not deserve to spend the rest of our lives trying to make up for them. I am reading the book codependence no more that was mentioned above and there is a chapter called " have a love affair with yourself" she talks about valuing yourself. That is important. You are worth it. If your daughter has to take care of herself she too will learn how to value herself. It is not just for you it is for her. She will feel better about herself and happier if she feels a sense of accomplishment. You need to be good to yourself and give her that chance. If you stop helping her maybe you could get down to one job. Make a goal to do something that would make you happy for a change. I will be praying for you. [/QUOTE]
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