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My adult daughter is spiraling (Borderline Personality Disorder)
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<blockquote data-quote="Aching Heart" data-source="post: 762939" data-attributes="member: 24614"><p>Sorry to read about your problems Gwen. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/pouting.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":pouting:" title="pouting :pouting:" data-shortname=":pouting:" /> My youngest daughter is a similar age with similar problems and not only was she abusive to me via private messages, but she also conned me out of a lot of money too. She has no children which is just as well as she never keeps any home she has clean - the last one had to be cleared out by people in hazmat suits and she had also abandoned several cats in it after being evicted. Finally, 3 years ago now, I went no contact with her as her abuse was driving me to a nervous breakdown. I am still on antidepressants. </p><p>One thing my doctor told me at the time was that my daughter was an adult and as such I was not responsible for her. I do not regret blocking her in every way possible and luckily she lives over the sea now so she won't be turning up here. I still love that little girl she once was but I just cannot have the adult her in my life anymore. I have a loving, supportive husband and some close family and I am happy again but deep down, I will never get over how she behaved and I will never be able to trust anything she said because I know how fast she would turn on me. For my mental health and the knock on effect it has on my already poor health (I am disabled now) I cannot have her in my life. Those with Borderline (BPD) never get any better. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/dissapointed2.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":dissapointed2:" title="dissapointed2 :dissapointed2:" data-shortname=":dissapointed2:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Aching Heart, post: 762939, member: 24614"] Sorry to read about your problems Gwen. :pouting: My youngest daughter is a similar age with similar problems and not only was she abusive to me via private messages, but she also conned me out of a lot of money too. She has no children which is just as well as she never keeps any home she has clean - the last one had to be cleared out by people in hazmat suits and she had also abandoned several cats in it after being evicted. Finally, 3 years ago now, I went no contact with her as her abuse was driving me to a nervous breakdown. I am still on antidepressants. One thing my doctor told me at the time was that my daughter was an adult and as such I was not responsible for her. I do not regret blocking her in every way possible and luckily she lives over the sea now so she won't be turning up here. I still love that little girl she once was but I just cannot have the adult her in my life anymore. I have a loving, supportive husband and some close family and I am happy again but deep down, I will never get over how she behaved and I will never be able to trust anything she said because I know how fast she would turn on me. For my mental health and the knock on effect it has on my already poor health (I am disabled now) I cannot have her in my life. Those with Borderline (BPD) never get any better. :dissapointed2: [/QUOTE]
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