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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 696015" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi BG, great to hear from you!!</p><p></p><p></p><p>I think your response to him was perfect. It was honest and to the point.</p><p>Him saying he's running out of options and that you don't care are pure manipulation - nothing more nothing less. When our d_c's get desperate they will lay on the guilt.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes, he did call to try and manipulate you. It's such a common cycle with so many d_c's. They find someone who they can stay with and things go well for a while, they put on a facade but can only keep it up for so long and then the "real" person comes out and they say or do something that will burn that bridge. When that happens they call mommy wanting her to fix everything. I have no doubt that before long he will find someone else that will be willing to help him out.</p><p></p><p></p><p>You have been mad long enough. Being sad is ok, but don't stay sad for to long. </p><p>What is really good here is that you are trying to rediscover who you are. That is just AWESOME!! I am so proud of you. You have come a long way.</p><p></p><p>Really good to hear from you. Hang in there BG. You are doing great!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 696015, member: 18516"] Hi BG, great to hear from you!! I think your response to him was perfect. It was honest and to the point. Him saying he's running out of options and that you don't care are pure manipulation - nothing more nothing less. When our d_c's get desperate they will lay on the guilt. Yes, he did call to try and manipulate you. It's such a common cycle with so many d_c's. They find someone who they can stay with and things go well for a while, they put on a facade but can only keep it up for so long and then the "real" person comes out and they say or do something that will burn that bridge. When that happens they call mommy wanting her to fix everything. I have no doubt that before long he will find someone else that will be willing to help him out. You have been mad long enough. Being sad is ok, but don't stay sad for to long. What is really good here is that you are trying to rediscover who you are. That is just AWESOME!! I am so proud of you. You have come a long way. Really good to hear from you. Hang in there BG. You are doing great! [/QUOTE]
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