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My difficult child son was taken away in cuffs today
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 645355" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>I went to the jail the first time my daughter was there. It was a horrible experience, they treated the visitors like criminals. Plus seeing her there twisted my heart in so many ways, I just couldn't do it. So, visiting has ceased to be an option. I have done both, put money on her books and not, depending entirely on how she had been treating me. I will not put any money anywhere if I am not treated with respect and appreciated. And, if I did, I put very little, not what she wanted so she could buy a calling card and chat with her friends. I have not blocked the calls, but since caller ID lets you know who it is, <em><u>I choose</u></em> when I am prepared to talk to her. There were times I just couldn't deal with it. So, for me, I made no blanket rules but went along entirely on what<em><u><strong> I</strong></u></em> WANTED in the moment. That worked for me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 645355, member: 13542"] I went to the jail the first time my daughter was there. It was a horrible experience, they treated the visitors like criminals. Plus seeing her there twisted my heart in so many ways, I just couldn't do it. So, visiting has ceased to be an option. I have done both, put money on her books and not, depending entirely on how she had been treating me. I will not put any money anywhere if I am not treated with respect and appreciated. And, if I did, I put very little, not what she wanted so she could buy a calling card and chat with her friends. I have not blocked the calls, but since caller ID lets you know who it is, [I][U]I choose[/U][/I] when I am prepared to talk to her. There were times I just couldn't deal with it. So, for me, I made no blanket rules but went along entirely on what[I][U][B] I[/B][/U][/I] WANTED in the moment. That worked for me. [/QUOTE]
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