We have one grandchild in our country. We were deeply involved in his life since birth and still would be if we could. We love and cherish this 5 year old. He is the centre of our universe. This child is suffering from anxiety and he is suffering the loss of his other grandmother. Not by death but due to my daughter banishing her and the uncle from his life Four years ago. The mother in law did a terrible thing against her son and my daughter due to misplaced concerns and through desperation and despair from not being allowed to see the grandchild, she reported her concerns to CAS not realized the full implications which resulted in complete banishment. This incident only deepened the deep hatred my daughter feels for this woman. The mother in law ever see her only grandchild again and she is 76 years old. She went to court asked to seek one hour supervised visits a month and a full retraction of her complaint to CAS. My daughter would not cave. In the meantime our relationship with our 43 year old daughter has been non existent . The only communication is to arrange a visit. Due to his separation anxiety from his parents we can no longer have him for overnight stays, we cannot go to their house and he refuses to go to the park or to go to his favourite restaurant. I text my daughter to set up a phone call appointment. She refuses to respond as we had another blowout so she is punishing me. She has done this before but relented after. A month or so. When is this Ok? This is only adding to the child's anxiety and suffering. In our generation this behaviour was non existent. What happend? I am beyond angry, I'm enraged, I'm appalled and I don't understand how she can justify this in her head that this is Ok. How can I ever. Begin to forgive her?