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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 693106" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>It really makes me wonder if the other grandmother who reported your daughter and son in law was perhaps justified or even emotionally pushed to the point of reporting. This seems like a pattern with daughter, 3 grandparents are not allowed in their son's life for whatever perceived hurts your daughter carries. Are you able to talk to the other grandparents at all and get their take on things?</p><p></p><p>I do agree with SWOT, kids these days feel justified in using a bully club on us for every little hurt or things they didn't get when they were kids/teenagers. YOU don't deserve to be treated like a second-class citizen. Kudos to you for not groveling. I am sorry about grandson- but not much you can do but go on with your life. Maybe you could set up a savings account for your grandchild as a birthday present for someday maybe you will be able to see and have a relationship with him.</p><p></p><p>Get the book, "Stop Walking on Eggshells" by Paul T Mason. It will help you make some sense of the chaos and manipulation you are going through with daughter.</p><p></p><p>I don't understand why if grandchild has separation anxiety why you can't come over and visit. I suspect more going on in their home then daughter wants you to see or observe.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 693106, member: 19951"] It really makes me wonder if the other grandmother who reported your daughter and son in law was perhaps justified or even emotionally pushed to the point of reporting. This seems like a pattern with daughter, 3 grandparents are not allowed in their son's life for whatever perceived hurts your daughter carries. Are you able to talk to the other grandparents at all and get their take on things? I do agree with SWOT, kids these days feel justified in using a bully club on us for every little hurt or things they didn't get when they were kids/teenagers. YOU don't deserve to be treated like a second-class citizen. Kudos to you for not groveling. I am sorry about grandson- but not much you can do but go on with your life. Maybe you could set up a savings account for your grandchild as a birthday present for someday maybe you will be able to see and have a relationship with him. Get the book, "Stop Walking on Eggshells" by Paul T Mason. It will help you make some sense of the chaos and manipulation you are going through with daughter. I don't understand why if grandchild has separation anxiety why you can't come over and visit. I suspect more going on in their home then daughter wants you to see or observe. [/QUOTE]
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