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<blockquote data-quote="tpcmom" data-source="post: 64743" data-attributes="member: 114"><p>Thank you all so much for your kind words and wisdom.</p><p></p><p>I was a mess yesterday, and went home and my oldest was a mess. He could never face prison time, that would be the death penalty for him. I'm am hoping that they will consider a rehab, because that's what he needs, help not prison.</p><p></p><p>I've done a lot of what you all suggested, some has helped a lot. I went to a Compassionate Friends meeting last month, they meet once a month. I also so a grief counselor yesterday thru the Families of Murder Victims. It's a free service from the city, and the man was nice, young, but nice. I cried and cried. I had a very bad day yesterday. And to top it off with my oldest problems is just the icing on the cake.</p><p></p><p>My middle guy is holding up. I think he keeps it locked in too much, and keep telling him even if it upsets me it is ok to talk to me about how he feels. Not to worry about upsetting me if he needs to talk. I want them to know I am here for them too. We are in this together.</p><p></p><p>I've been sending e-mails to everyone I can think of that can help me, another thing that is keeping me going. I have a reward fund set up at a bank and I also did another article at another local paper here in Phila. I haven't seen it yet, but a friend of mine said it was a good article.</p><p></p><p>I have not been to that website yet. Maybe I will lurk about, I do feel very comfortable coming to CD as I've been here a long long time, it's like family!</p><p></p><p>I also contacted a woman that lives near me who lost her son to violence 2 years ago, they never caught his killer either. It was a car-jacking. It's so sad to see how all these young people are killing each other, and I never thought my family would be touched by such violence. Never would I have dreamed that this could happen to me and I would lose my baby who fought so hard to get to that wonderful loving young man he was becoming.</p><p></p><p>I better go or I'll start crying again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tpcmom, post: 64743, member: 114"] Thank you all so much for your kind words and wisdom. I was a mess yesterday, and went home and my oldest was a mess. He could never face prison time, that would be the death penalty for him. I'm am hoping that they will consider a rehab, because that's what he needs, help not prison. I've done a lot of what you all suggested, some has helped a lot. I went to a Compassionate Friends meeting last month, they meet once a month. I also so a grief counselor yesterday thru the Families of Murder Victims. It's a free service from the city, and the man was nice, young, but nice. I cried and cried. I had a very bad day yesterday. And to top it off with my oldest problems is just the icing on the cake. My middle guy is holding up. I think he keeps it locked in too much, and keep telling him even if it upsets me it is ok to talk to me about how he feels. Not to worry about upsetting me if he needs to talk. I want them to know I am here for them too. We are in this together. I've been sending e-mails to everyone I can think of that can help me, another thing that is keeping me going. I have a reward fund set up at a bank and I also did another article at another local paper here in Phila. I haven't seen it yet, but a friend of mine said it was a good article. I have not been to that website yet. Maybe I will lurk about, I do feel very comfortable coming to CD as I've been here a long long time, it's like family! I also contacted a woman that lives near me who lost her son to violence 2 years ago, they never caught his killer either. It was a car-jacking. It's so sad to see how all these young people are killing each other, and I never thought my family would be touched by such violence. Never would I have dreamed that this could happen to me and I would lose my baby who fought so hard to get to that wonderful loving young man he was becoming. I better go or I'll start crying again. [/QUOTE]
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