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My Own Adult Daughter has lied and stole from me
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<blockquote data-quote="Deni D" data-source="post: 762592" data-attributes="member: 22840"><p>Taffy, it seems from what you are saying a check was cut for almost $50,000 from the VA that should have gone to you as a surviving child of your deceased father who was exposed to Agent Orange in Vietnam. His service in that war was heroic, and your care for him and your mother for the last five years of their lives was loving and caring.</p><p></p><p>But it doesn't matter how loving and caring you have been towards your parents during their final years or how off the rails your daughter has been as an adult. Legally that money is yours. </p><p></p><p>If she received the check by mistake from them and cashed it then that's for her to deal with when they catch up with her. I hope she didn't get it by mistake for her sake, and I hope they are able to stop payment on it and reissue it to you shortly. If it has been cashed then they should be able to tell you that and give you information about the bank and such. At that point then they should be able to direct you to how to file a report for it as being stolen. I'm being generic here because I'm not familiar with VA accounts but if you don't have an online VA account I think now might be the time to create one for yourself, with help with someone you trust if need be. Good luck and good wishes to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Deni D, post: 762592, member: 22840"] Taffy, it seems from what you are saying a check was cut for almost $50,000 from the VA that should have gone to you as a surviving child of your deceased father who was exposed to Agent Orange in Vietnam. His service in that war was heroic, and your care for him and your mother for the last five years of their lives was loving and caring. But it doesn't matter how loving and caring you have been towards your parents during their final years or how off the rails your daughter has been as an adult. Legally that money is yours. If she received the check by mistake from them and cashed it then that's for her to deal with when they catch up with her. I hope she didn't get it by mistake for her sake, and I hope they are able to stop payment on it and reissue it to you shortly. If it has been cashed then they should be able to tell you that and give you information about the bank and such. At that point then they should be able to direct you to how to file a report for it as being stolen. I'm being generic here because I'm not familiar with VA accounts but if you don't have an online VA account I think now might be the time to create one for yourself, with help with someone you trust if need be. Good luck and good wishes to you. [/QUOTE]
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