I talked to my sons dad the other day, he has calmed down and said he wanted to work things out with my son & if they released him on the 28th he is willing to forgive and have him go back home with him & work out there relationship. Fast forward to today my son called , he sounded worried about where he would have to go if they released him on his court date, I told him , dad is willing to forgive him & willing to work things out& acourse there would be rules.My son wants nothing to do with his father& begged me to call his grandparents so he could go there. I tried to explain to my son they are old & don’t work & it would be to hard for them but he said that’s not true. I did call his grandparents & they said they know where they live is not a safe place for him. The neighborhood where they live , is where this all started with my son doing drugs, the violence etc & they don’t want to be the ones to destroy him because where they live is easy access to his drugs. My son knows living with me is not an option & didn’t even ask. I don’t know what’s going to happen , he could easily go back with his dad if released but won’t, why is he making things so hard.