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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 761633" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Thank you Deb and Suz… with all the old faces around here lately it is reminding me so much of J’s funeral. Thank you all for showing up to be here for me at this time as well as all the times in the past. I don’t know what I would have done without all the support over the years and I am forever grateful.</p><p></p><p>We received the police report 2 days ago. It left me feeling fairly frustrated and disturbed. Witnesses saw my son on the highway at around 4am and did not call authorities. He died at 4:55am. My son had no shoes on his feet and I know the temps Thanksgiving morning in Napa had to be in the 30’s. My son had a citation in his pocket from the day before…likely due to public intoxication previously, which means within that past 24 hours he had contact with police and was likely on Meth during that time as the autopsy revealed he had Meth in his blood and urine. Oh and the driver who hit my son did not have a license and is likely not a US citizen. </p><p>So many people involved that did not call 911…till it was too late. </p><p>In the past, intervention for my son always came. He would get high, act strangely, help would come and he would be hospitalized. He would get stable, set goals, look forward to getting out of the hospital. Then get out…and get high all over again.</p><p></p><p>I guess he ran out of chances. He had had hundreds of them. </p><p>I wish I could bring him back…but for what? He always chose drugs at the end of the day. I am still sad for his loss. Maybe I always will be. I find myself so lonely these days. I didn’t realize how much of my life’s energy was filled up with dear son. </p><p></p><p>Thank you all for wrapping your collective arms around me. Knowing someone cares means so much to me.</p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 761633, member: 3305"] Thank you Deb and Suz… with all the old faces around here lately it is reminding me so much of J’s funeral. Thank you all for showing up to be here for me at this time as well as all the times in the past. I don’t know what I would have done without all the support over the years and I am forever grateful. We received the police report 2 days ago. It left me feeling fairly frustrated and disturbed. Witnesses saw my son on the highway at around 4am and did not call authorities. He died at 4:55am. My son had no shoes on his feet and I know the temps Thanksgiving morning in Napa had to be in the 30’s. My son had a citation in his pocket from the day before…likely due to public intoxication previously, which means within that past 24 hours he had contact with police and was likely on Meth during that time as the autopsy revealed he had Meth in his blood and urine. Oh and the driver who hit my son did not have a license and is likely not a US citizen. So many people involved that did not call 911…till it was too late. In the past, intervention for my son always came. He would get high, act strangely, help would come and he would be hospitalized. He would get stable, set goals, look forward to getting out of the hospital. Then get out…and get high all over again. I guess he ran out of chances. He had had hundreds of them. I wish I could bring him back…but for what? He always chose drugs at the end of the day. I am still sad for his loss. Maybe I always will be. I find myself so lonely these days. I didn’t realize how much of my life’s energy was filled up with dear son. Thank you all for wrapping your collective arms around me. Knowing someone cares means so much to me. LMS [/QUOTE]
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