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<blockquote data-quote="Jerri" data-source="post: 627102" data-attributes="member: 383"><p>Your reaction is very NORMAL, let me say that again... your reaction is very NORMAL. It is NORMAL to be ashamed and insecure about discovering that your Kid isn't stacking up just right when it comes to their sexual development. You should want to know WHY he is fixated on this. But you are going to have to get back to the basics to do so. Find out what his thoughts are about sex and sexual functioning, I would recommend its a TWO parent discussion. Talk to your Daughter... ask her what her ideas and thoughts are, and then ask her if she thinks you were a contributing participant in the development of the same... and what she felt your shortcomings were in regards to the education you gave her.</p><p></p><p>Will he die in jail? Quite possibly... will he be irrevocably harmed? ABSOLUTELY</p><p></p><p>Is he old enough for this not to be your problem any longer? Maybe...</p><p></p><p>I have chimed.</p><p></p><p>If there is anything in my response that you think is critical or non-supportive in this response, I wish for you to read this: I in NO WAY, shape manner or form, believe that you are doing anything wrong, I understand so well, how hard it was for you to simply type out this post... I am willing to bet you would have preferred to stand naked in the Town Square than to share this secret with any other human being, because we don't even want ourselves to know this stuff.</p><p></p><p>When I was responding to you, reading the posts and replies, I re-experienced many of the same gut wrenching, jaw tightening effects that I had the 1st go round, starting with the Baby Boy conversation.</p><p></p><p>My "CHIME" is the only thing I have to offer and that is to channel Grandma Burke... and I gotta hit PICO here and give you truth, honesty and open conversation to be had and or started.</p><p></p><p>My hope is, that side stepping stigma will open the door for you to take a deep breath and look at this like every other behavior or situation you have or will have as a parent.</p><p></p><p>This "chime" would only be negated IF he ACTS or has ACTED on his thoughts and impulses, because then you are dealing with victims, and you will have all these options taken against everyone's will.</p><p></p><p>You are not alone... you are just a whole lot braver (desperation does that) than many others. Let the desperation inspire you to take a fresh look and go from there.</p><p></p><p>Hugs n Love!!! *smooches*</p><p></p><p>Jerri</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jerri, post: 627102, member: 383"] Your reaction is very NORMAL, let me say that again... your reaction is very NORMAL. It is NORMAL to be ashamed and insecure about discovering that your Kid isn't stacking up just right when it comes to their sexual development. You should want to know WHY he is fixated on this. But you are going to have to get back to the basics to do so. Find out what his thoughts are about sex and sexual functioning, I would recommend its a TWO parent discussion. Talk to your Daughter... ask her what her ideas and thoughts are, and then ask her if she thinks you were a contributing participant in the development of the same... and what she felt your shortcomings were in regards to the education you gave her. Will he die in jail? Quite possibly... will he be irrevocably harmed? ABSOLUTELY Is he old enough for this not to be your problem any longer? Maybe... I have chimed. If there is anything in my response that you think is critical or non-supportive in this response, I wish for you to read this: I in NO WAY, shape manner or form, believe that you are doing anything wrong, I understand so well, how hard it was for you to simply type out this post... I am willing to bet you would have preferred to stand naked in the Town Square than to share this secret with any other human being, because we don't even want ourselves to know this stuff. When I was responding to you, reading the posts and replies, I re-experienced many of the same gut wrenching, jaw tightening effects that I had the 1st go round, starting with the Baby Boy conversation. My "CHIME" is the only thing I have to offer and that is to channel Grandma Burke... and I gotta hit PICO here and give you truth, honesty and open conversation to be had and or started. My hope is, that side stepping stigma will open the door for you to take a deep breath and look at this like every other behavior or situation you have or will have as a parent. This "chime" would only be negated IF he ACTS or has ACTED on his thoughts and impulses, because then you are dealing with victims, and you will have all these options taken against everyone's will. You are not alone... you are just a whole lot braver (desperation does that) than many others. Let the desperation inspire you to take a fresh look and go from there. Hugs n Love!!! *smooches* Jerri [/QUOTE]
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