My son is 18 and has been sleeping in his car for the past 2 weeks. He did not graduate high school, just 2 credits shy. I've enrolled him in an alternative HS, where he could graduate in just 2 classes per day, in 1 semester, provided clothes, supplies, haircut, mobile phone, gift cards for gas and food, a gym membership and made appointments with psychologist and psychiatrist in attempts to stabilize him. Hoping he would see how irrational he has become. And still he had every excuse not to go to school or comply with medical attention. He had been staying with my mom, since my father (his only solid male figure) passed away last spring. It seemed to be a good solution at the time. My son and I haven't had the best relationship for a few years, especially after I remarried. Unfortunately, my children's father has never been much to mention, completely unsupportive in every way. My husband is amazing with my two daughters and his children. My son didn't successfully bond with my husband at the difficult age of 15, despite all of our efforts. Now his grandmother has also lost her patience with him, ofcourse he was enabled beyond control while with her. He is now sleeping in his car and refuses to get the psychological assessments and/or address his self medicating (with God knows what). I fear he has been depressed for sometime and I can only assume, this situation will exacerbate that. He refuses to complete HS and respect family and home, which are the conditions of him coming back to our home. The prospect of that scenario is hardly a comfortable solution for my husband and I, as I have 2 other daughters and he has 4 younger children that are with us on the weekends. My sons disrespect of us, our other children and our home are just some of the reasons, he went to live with his grandmother. I certainly do not want to enable him and I've probably afforded him too many comforts despite his poor choices. He refuses all support links I send to him, telling me to stop sending him info. But, he is my son and I am guilt ridden and having a really hard time with this. Am I alone in this scenario? Am I making the right choices?