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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 625816" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>I am sorry Aud, for the pain that you are experiencing. How are you? </p><p></p><p>It's a double whammy when the bad situation is between two people who you love so much, and both of those people are hurt badly. </p><p></p><p>One thing doesn't ruin a person's whole life, Aud. One choice. Your son made a choice to beat up his sister. But he will have to bear the consequences of that choice, as he should.</p><p></p><p>And Echo is right above. Bad things happen to people in life, really bad things like you describe your son has experienced. </p><p></p><p>What will we do with the bad things that happen to us? That is the key question, I believe.</p><p></p><p>Many times the dramatic event is a catalyst for real change. And when the authorities are involved and a process has begun, it's a good time for us to step back. Wait. Let time take its time. And use that time to rebuild ourselves. </p><p></p><p>He has made a big choice here, and something new will happen as a result of it. </p><p></p><p>Where are you, in terms of how you are doing right now, Aud? What are you doing to take care of yourself? That is paramount right now, as you are part of the fallout of what has happened here. </p><p></p><p>Put yourself first, Aud. Take care of YOU just for today. </p><p></p><p>Tomorrow, you can focus on your daughter and make sure she is getting the help she needs, including your love and support, and also your son,to share your love and support. </p><p></p><p>Hugs and prayers to you today, Aud. I am so sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 625816, member: 17542"] I am sorry Aud, for the pain that you are experiencing. How are you? It's a double whammy when the bad situation is between two people who you love so much, and both of those people are hurt badly. One thing doesn't ruin a person's whole life, Aud. One choice. Your son made a choice to beat up his sister. But he will have to bear the consequences of that choice, as he should. And Echo is right above. Bad things happen to people in life, really bad things like you describe your son has experienced. What will we do with the bad things that happen to us? That is the key question, I believe. Many times the dramatic event is a catalyst for real change. And when the authorities are involved and a process has begun, it's a good time for us to step back. Wait. Let time take its time. And use that time to rebuild ourselves. He has made a big choice here, and something new will happen as a result of it. Where are you, in terms of how you are doing right now, Aud? What are you doing to take care of yourself? That is paramount right now, as you are part of the fallout of what has happened here. Put yourself first, Aud. Take care of YOU just for today. Tomorrow, you can focus on your daughter and make sure she is getting the help she needs, including your love and support, and also your son,to share your love and support. Hugs and prayers to you today, Aud. I am so sorry. [/QUOTE]
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