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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 647597" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>It doesn't matter where she picks up the child. All she has to do is to claim the child shows signs of abuse and she can turn his world upside down again and again. Once the child can talk it gets easier because children have a hard time knowing the difference between fantasy and reality. It has been proven that just asking a question as few as four times can have the child believe something happened that didn't.</p><p></p><p>If you ask a child "Did Daddy touch you here?" and the child says "no" and you ask the question a few more times the child will say yes because clearly no was the wrong answer. Then the child will quickly start to believe that yes was the right answer because it was the one that the adult accepted. My niece was 8 when my exsil did this to her and my brother. It was 9 months of sheer torture. the witch even had his work computer seized, very publicly, claiming there was evidence on it. Bro was eventually found innocent and his ex was chewed out by the judge bigtime, but her custody of niece was not changed. The judge said that it was incredibly clear that she coached and coerced her daughter into lying to the police and the court, and that it was reprehensible. in my opinion she should have lost all but supervised visitation for putting her child through this, but here the judges flat out refuse to alter 50/50 custody for much of anything. Even her admissions of using drugs constantly have not been enough to even reduce her custody.</p><p></p><p>Make darn sure that YOU are also protected when she comes to pick up your granddaughter. Use that app yourself because she could accuse you or anyone in your home of anything she can dream up. If you have a security system or can get a drop cam (web cam you can set up anywhere very easily that records everything - very simple and not terribly expensive), videotape what goes on at pick up time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 647597, member: 1233"] It doesn't matter where she picks up the child. All she has to do is to claim the child shows signs of abuse and she can turn his world upside down again and again. Once the child can talk it gets easier because children have a hard time knowing the difference between fantasy and reality. It has been proven that just asking a question as few as four times can have the child believe something happened that didn't. If you ask a child "Did Daddy touch you here?" and the child says "no" and you ask the question a few more times the child will say yes because clearly no was the wrong answer. Then the child will quickly start to believe that yes was the right answer because it was the one that the adult accepted. My niece was 8 when my exsil did this to her and my brother. It was 9 months of sheer torture. the witch even had his work computer seized, very publicly, claiming there was evidence on it. Bro was eventually found innocent and his ex was chewed out by the judge bigtime, but her custody of niece was not changed. The judge said that it was incredibly clear that she coached and coerced her daughter into lying to the police and the court, and that it was reprehensible. in my opinion she should have lost all but supervised visitation for putting her child through this, but here the judges flat out refuse to alter 50/50 custody for much of anything. Even her admissions of using drugs constantly have not been enough to even reduce her custody. Make darn sure that YOU are also protected when she comes to pick up your granddaughter. Use that app yourself because she could accuse you or anyone in your home of anything she can dream up. If you have a security system or can get a drop cam (web cam you can set up anywhere very easily that records everything - very simple and not terribly expensive), videotape what goes on at pick up time. [/QUOTE]
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