No condolences are necessary. I have been waiting for years for troll to pass. Several months ago I explained to my mom that if he died first, I would not be able to attend his funeral. His son is best friends with my ex-husband who stalked me. I cannot and will not open up that can of venomous snakes. To meet with those people from my past would be unsafe. My mom understood. They had a gathering at troll's grandson's house but no formal funeral or memorial. According to mom, it went well and was dull except for one guy riding up on a Harley. She had forgotten who he was, but I remembered and am glad I wasn't there to experience it. I don't have anything against Harleys per se, but troll was friends with a host of extremely rough people.