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My stepdaughter wants to move in!
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<blockquote data-quote="Lioness" data-source="post: 660408" data-attributes="member: 18827"><p>I have nothing to add except that you are as always wise and right. I'm so tired that I feel defeated. My marriage is battered and bruised with all the pressure. He says that he had supported me through all the problems with my eldest Borderline (BPD) daughter and Iam not supporting him. I have explained to him that he is not helping her by letting her move in but he feels that he can make her get a job if she is here with us. She is a drama queen and a lot of hArd work so I'm not surprised her mother wants her out to. He is so used to saving the day that he knows no different. Have told him my intention to sell my house and downsize and he isn't happy as I'm buying a two bed property. He feels that I won't throw my daughter out. No I won't she's 22 straight out of university but working full time even though she has an auto immune disease and on drugs that make her very ill at times. She has her kidneys and liver checked every two weeks. She wants to save up to leave home in January next year with or without her boyfriend. Yet she is a pleasure and not a burden. His daughter is needy, rude and lazy. That is the difference. I need to toughen my resolve. Maybe I will end up alone so be it. I do not want to be at everyone's mercy. I will be charitable and let her stay but he will lose it with her eventually as he will not like seeing the reality of his lazy daughter. I have told him he needs to change I can't do it all alone we are supposed to be a couple. Tonight he is sulking!! Thanks</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lioness, post: 660408, member: 18827"] I have nothing to add except that you are as always wise and right. I'm so tired that I feel defeated. My marriage is battered and bruised with all the pressure. He says that he had supported me through all the problems with my eldest Borderline (BPD) daughter and Iam not supporting him. I have explained to him that he is not helping her by letting her move in but he feels that he can make her get a job if she is here with us. She is a drama queen and a lot of hArd work so I'm not surprised her mother wants her out to. He is so used to saving the day that he knows no different. Have told him my intention to sell my house and downsize and he isn't happy as I'm buying a two bed property. He feels that I won't throw my daughter out. No I won't she's 22 straight out of university but working full time even though she has an auto immune disease and on drugs that make her very ill at times. She has her kidneys and liver checked every two weeks. She wants to save up to leave home in January next year with or without her boyfriend. Yet she is a pleasure and not a burden. His daughter is needy, rude and lazy. That is the difference. I need to toughen my resolve. Maybe I will end up alone so be it. I do not want to be at everyone's mercy. I will be charitable and let her stay but he will lose it with her eventually as he will not like seeing the reality of his lazy daughter. I have told him he needs to change I can't do it all alone we are supposed to be a couple. Tonight he is sulking!! Thanks [/QUOTE]
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