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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 713711" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Before you make any decisions read the awesome book "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randy Krieger. It is all about dealing with people who have the very very difficult issue of borderline personality disorder. Bipolar is a walk in the park next to borderline because borderline is wired into the person...it is who she is, and it is very unstable. They never have ongoing long term healthy relationships with anyone, you included, and they can be highly unethical, empathy challenged and it is NEVER their faults. Just ask them!</p><p></p><p>The few borderlines who want to change and are willing to work very hard in therapy (dialectal behavioral therapy can be effective) can beat it. It can take years though. medications dont change borderline behavior. The problem is most borderlines think others "make me behave this way" and think they are fine. They refuse therapy thinking everyone else needs it, not them.</p><p></p><p>It is difficult to live with.i would not.</p><p></p><p>Please read the book mentioned above and i recommend a site to check </p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.bpdcentral.com" target="_blank">www.bpdcentral.com</a></p><p></p><p>There is info and a forum there. If the address doesnt work just type borderline central into your search engine. It is there.</p><p></p><p>You will see you are not alone and can go from there.</p><p></p><p>Protect yourself and your assets. She could possibly be dangerous. Read and learn so you know best how to interact with her and be on guard.</p><p></p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 713711, member: 1550"] Before you make any decisions read the awesome book "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randy Krieger. It is all about dealing with people who have the very very difficult issue of borderline personality disorder. Bipolar is a walk in the park next to borderline because borderline is wired into the person...it is who she is, and it is very unstable. They never have ongoing long term healthy relationships with anyone, you included, and they can be highly unethical, empathy challenged and it is NEVER their faults. Just ask them! The few borderlines who want to change and are willing to work very hard in therapy (dialectal behavioral therapy can be effective) can beat it. It can take years though. medications dont change borderline behavior. The problem is most borderlines think others "make me behave this way" and think they are fine. They refuse therapy thinking everyone else needs it, not them. It is difficult to live with.i would not. Please read the book mentioned above and i recommend a site to check [URL="http://www.bpdcentral.com"]www.bpdcentral.com[/URL] There is info and a forum there. If the address doesnt work just type borderline central into your search engine. It is there. You will see you are not alone and can go from there. Protect yourself and your assets. She could possibly be dangerous. Read and learn so you know best how to interact with her and be on guard. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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