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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 713767" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You cant help a borderline. It is touchy and not quite a mental illness. I heard it described as a personality glitch and medications dont help. Wanting to change helps but you must admit you have problems and commit to years of hard therapy. Most wont admit they have any problems. That is not your fault. The help is there if she admits she needs help to change and is willing to work at it.</p><p></p><p>If you read Borderline (BPD) central, you know that experiences dont help borderlines change. Dont waste your retirement money. At your daughters age, it is all on her, if she wants to change or not. She can work, borderline or not. Most borderlines work. Three degrees? She could easily get a job. It is her problem if she wont. Only she can save herself and she has the education to sustain herself.</p><p></p><p>The drug abuse is a huge problem, very common in borderline, but you cant fix that either</p><p></p><p>Time to be good to yourself. Let 34 year old figure out her life, for better or for worse.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 713767, member: 1550"] You cant help a borderline. It is touchy and not quite a mental illness. I heard it described as a personality glitch and medications dont help. Wanting to change helps but you must admit you have problems and commit to years of hard therapy. Most wont admit they have any problems. That is not your fault. The help is there if she admits she needs help to change and is willing to work at it. If you read Borderline (BPD) central, you know that experiences dont help borderlines change. Dont waste your retirement money. At your daughters age, it is all on her, if she wants to change or not. She can work, borderline or not. Most borderlines work. Three degrees? She could easily get a job. It is her problem if she wont. Only she can save herself and she has the education to sustain herself. The drug abuse is a huge problem, very common in borderline, but you cant fix that either Time to be good to yourself. Let 34 year old figure out her life, for better or for worse. [/QUOTE]
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