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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 666783" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Me three.</p><p></p><p>I must add, it hardly ever happens now with FOO out of my life. Most people mean well and are not enmeshed in childhood issues with us. I don't know if the same people at work or "play" are acting out their own childhoods with FOO members, but they aren't doing it to me. I think FOO ties, when the family unit was a mess, cause the collateral damage to take it on on one another, and there is usually one that is more aggressive than the other one. I think it's her. I'm sure she thinks it's me. Does it matter? As long as we stay apart, my particular life is calm and peaceful. My mental health means more to me, and my loved ones, than trying again to have a relationship with somebody who thinks she is the normal one, when that is not true. Until you can face your issues, you can't heal. </p><p></p><p>The difference is night and day. There is always drama when FOO interactions occur so why ask for it?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 666783, member: 1550"] Me three. I must add, it hardly ever happens now with FOO out of my life. Most people mean well and are not enmeshed in childhood issues with us. I don't know if the same people at work or "play" are acting out their own childhoods with FOO members, but they aren't doing it to me. I think FOO ties, when the family unit was a mess, cause the collateral damage to take it on on one another, and there is usually one that is more aggressive than the other one. I think it's her. I'm sure she thinks it's me. Does it matter? As long as we stay apart, my particular life is calm and peaceful. My mental health means more to me, and my loved ones, than trying again to have a relationship with somebody who thinks she is the normal one, when that is not true. Until you can face your issues, you can't heal. The difference is night and day. There is always drama when FOO interactions occur so why ask for it? [/QUOTE]
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