It's been 1 year since we have seen our 18yo son. He has Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), conduct disorder, narcissistic behavior. He chooses not to communicate with us. He will post a FB post to update his life and apparently we are supposed to read this. Otherwise, no communication. He did reach out and ask for money. We refused. We said it would be more beneficial to him if we helped him manage his income "so let's go over your finances" so we can help you. Never happened. He lives several states away with a girlfriend. They are driving through our city tonight and we saw his FB post to the world that said "Hey family/friends, we are driving through, would love to see you". We offered to have dinner with them. I know they were looking for a free place to spend the night but we are not inviting them to our house. We are meeting at a restaurant. Bleh! I hope they cancel. I don't know what to say, I have no interest in hearing lie after lie. I fear he will say they are getting married or she is pregnant. Lord, I hope not! The No Contact with him has been a relief. Now we are meeting and I'm so stressed. How do you go NO Contact with your child? There is still that little bit of me that thinks....if he's changed, I will have an open heart. Just needed to vent. Any advice? I am just dreading this.