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<blockquote data-quote="Lost in sadness" data-source="post: 721273" data-attributes="member: 21056"><p>Thank you all. I have missed you.</p><p></p><p>Can you believe it....I spoke to soon! Monday is the night he comes for dinner. Tried to talk to him about his debt (court fines, £250 mobile phone bill I paid off for him) and he got angry and shouted. Slammed the door etc. Money is an issue for him. Now that he is working he believes he should spend all the money on what he wants and burys his head about all the stuff that still needs sorting. The mess he created that he still, in part blames us for. Whenever it is mentioned he gets angry. He actually received a NTQ (notice to quit) in the homeless hostel because he refused to pay the rent. In the grand scheme of things life is so much better than it was. But...</p><p></p><p>This is the nagging doubt though.......its been confirmed this evening. My son is fine if he is doing what he wants, when he wants. When you challenge this or say something he doesn't like he still goes off on one. This is my concern. Realistically, he may never be able to come home because deep down I know it won't work and I feel on edge. How will I ever tell him that. I should feel happy. Sometimes I do. Right now I am still torn as to whether he has other issues that weed numbs for him. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lost in sadness, post: 721273, member: 21056"] Thank you all. I have missed you. Can you believe it....I spoke to soon! Monday is the night he comes for dinner. Tried to talk to him about his debt (court fines, £250 mobile phone bill I paid off for him) and he got angry and shouted. Slammed the door etc. Money is an issue for him. Now that he is working he believes he should spend all the money on what he wants and burys his head about all the stuff that still needs sorting. The mess he created that he still, in part blames us for. Whenever it is mentioned he gets angry. He actually received a NTQ (notice to quit) in the homeless hostel because he refused to pay the rent. In the grand scheme of things life is so much better than it was. But... This is the nagging doubt though.......its been confirmed this evening. My son is fine if he is doing what he wants, when he wants. When you challenge this or say something he doesn't like he still goes off on one. This is my concern. Realistically, he may never be able to come home because deep down I know it won't work and I feel on edge. How will I ever tell him that. I should feel happy. Sometimes I do. Right now I am still torn as to whether he has other issues that weed numbs for him. :( [/QUOTE]
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