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<blockquote data-quote="Lost in sadness" data-source="post: 721479" data-attributes="member: 21056"><p>Agreed. I do feel I can forgive and forget just so I can move on with my life. At the moment is feels ruined and destroyed by everything that has happened and deep down there is a lingering resentment. It baffles me that they have made their own choices but yet somehow still continue to proportion blame. It is them that appears unable to move on. I go over it in my mind and wonder what I got wrong, of course, I made mistakes and it continues to eat me up. Am I controlling? a little, did I get angry? yes, did I say things that were mean in anger? yes. I own my flaws. Sometimes he does but generally I think he feels he is like he is BECAUSE we threw him out and he had to see and do the things he did to survive. Our view is, we threw you out BECAUSE of his behaviour. I can see how he would feel rejected, unwanted, unloved, uncared about because yes, I cut him off at times. I never allowed him back. I allowed him to live out of bags sofa surfing, I allowed him to be hungry, and it hurts like hell. I wonder if mentally and emotionally he will ever truly get over it and in part I blame myself. xx</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lost in sadness, post: 721479, member: 21056"] Agreed. I do feel I can forgive and forget just so I can move on with my life. At the moment is feels ruined and destroyed by everything that has happened and deep down there is a lingering resentment. It baffles me that they have made their own choices but yet somehow still continue to proportion blame. It is them that appears unable to move on. I go over it in my mind and wonder what I got wrong, of course, I made mistakes and it continues to eat me up. Am I controlling? a little, did I get angry? yes, did I say things that were mean in anger? yes. I own my flaws. Sometimes he does but generally I think he feels he is like he is BECAUSE we threw him out and he had to see and do the things he did to survive. Our view is, we threw you out BECAUSE of his behaviour. I can see how he would feel rejected, unwanted, unloved, uncared about because yes, I cut him off at times. I never allowed him back. I allowed him to live out of bags sofa surfing, I allowed him to be hungry, and it hurts like hell. I wonder if mentally and emotionally he will ever truly get over it and in part I blame myself. xx [/QUOTE]
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